The promotion He had been waiting for all his life HAPPENED just
as he wanted it. There was joy in the family & celebrations all around.
Then began the spiral. Knowledge & Competencies were all in
place yet something was amiss. There was a hollow haunting emptiness deep
within which nobody could see or begin to fathom.
The “I have made it so far not to screw up now factor”-
Perfectionism & the pressures that come with it & the self belief
& the fear of failure –each heavier than the next.
We reach our levels of Incompetency not Competency says the
Peter’s Principal. Yet how many prepare for that day or is the right question
-How many of us prepare for us not to reach that day?
Instant short term goals cloud our reasoning to allow
talent,knowledge & manipulation to take over. Honesty to one’s self takes a
The bluff has been called.
What is at the core of constantly moving forward with a Growth
Mindset every day?
Pick your path and
Did she make you cry
Make you break down
Shatter your illusions of love
And is it over now, do you know how
Pick up the pieces and go home....
Sanjiv Sadana is a Life Skills, Leadership & Executive
“Getting You to Your Destination”