You don’t have to be Alone to feel
lonely. Lonely and Alone are two different words with wider different meaning.
Lonely makes us isolate from this world whereas alone opens for all possibilities.
You are alone when you travel or
simply when your family is not around and of course when you choose to be just
with yourself. At the same time some people feel very lonely even when they are
into a relationship or be a part of a huge crowd. It’s hard to find anybody who
has not experienced the state of being lonely in some point in their life. So
basically it’s a situation and the state of mind that can either make us lonely
Many people from all walks of life
who don’t know how they are ended up where they are today and misunderstood the
meaning of either being “lonely” or “alone” and then look ahead without having
any idea where they are going……previously many a times even I also found myself
in this situation so if you are feeling the same you are not alone.The key
question is , can you do anything about it? Certainly yes just READ
How you can transform your state of alone into a
It means the ability to respond and
best part is that we all have the ability to choose how we respond to things
that happen to us. Accepting and taking responsibility is the first step to
experience your own purpose for living this life, which will motivate you to
take resourceful actions to get our life back on track. Even if your life is
looking ugly at the moment take charge and take responsibility for making
changes. Don’t blame others but take time to create impact to unlock your
KNOW YOUR DESTINATION
Don’t just allow life to go by
without aiming at something meaningful. Accept that nevertheless whatever
happens to you LIFE CANT STOP,……. IT STILL GOES ON…so as you. You have to find your own way to live on.
Many people surrender to their fate
and shut down into the auto pilot mode which brings only more miseries to them
and their surroundings. Try to visualize what is that you want to leave behind
for which people will remember you after your farewell from this world.
Imagining your end will bring back the lost power to create that purpose for
which you want to live the rest of your life. Life is indeed a journey but
purpose is the landing destination.
The meaning of celebration applies
when everyone feels happy including you of course. You don’t need any party or
festival to celebrate yourself. Celebrate when you take bath and feeling fresh
and rejuvenated, celebrate when you listen to your favorite song, celebrate
when people compliment you. You will get thousands of reasons to celebrate each
and every day. Take every opportunity to celebrate , it will give you enough
reasons for finding purpose and vitality to live this life irrelevant to the
fact of being lonely or alone.
HAVE A PATHFINDER
Life is not meant to live in
isolation. It’s hard to find anybody who has successfully achieved greater
heights without being influenced by positive people around themselves.
Explore and find somebody who can keep you
accountable for your actions and help to choose right direction to reach your
destination. Trust and Follow the great pathfinders such as Coaches, pastors,
trusted confidant or just a well wisher who themselves are following the rules
which makes their life a meaningful journey will also make you walk with energy